Complaints and moderation

Last updated 7 October 2026

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  • From Caren's solicitor; needed for the Online Safety Act.
  • How to complain (about a member, content, a decision we made, or about us), and what to include
  • Who reviews complaints, and how long it takes
  • How reports are handled, and what actions we can take
  • How to appeal a moderation decision
  • Escalating further if you're not happy
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