Privacy policy

Last updated 7 October 2026

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  • From Caren's solicitor, matching the DPIA.
  • Who the data controller is (Caren's business) and how to contact them
  • What we collect: account details, profile answers, photos, messages (held by the messaging service), payments (held by Stripe), age check results (from the verification provider), usage data
  • Special category data: sexual orientation, collected with explicit consent, and how to withdraw it
  • Why we use it, and the lawful basis for each use
  • Who we share it with: WP Engine (hosting), Amazon Web Services (photos), Stream (messages), Stripe (payments), the age check provider, Mailgun and Mailjet (email), Google and Meta (if you sign in with them), PostHog, Google Analytics, Microsoft Clarity and Fathom (analytics)
  • International transfers and safeguards
  • How long we keep each kind of data, including reports and deleted accounts
  • Your rights (access, correction, deletion, objection, portability) and how to use them
  • Cookies: link to the cookies policy
  • How to complain to the ICO
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